Mistress Wiley Wolfe is a Professional and Lifestyle Dominatrix, Fetish Performer, BDSM Educator, Human Animal Handler, and Ethically Polyamorous Primal Daddy based in the Los Angeles area. She began her professional journey at the renowned Sanctuary Studios LAX, starting as a submissive and training alongside top Dominants into the refined Mistress she is today.

Strict, demanding, and deliciously cruel, Mistress Wolfe exudes a brand of playful wickedness, firm guidance, and gender-fucked autocracy.

She's the woman you'll never be enough for. The Daddy who just might be proud of you. The wild creature you can never touch.

Driven to foster connection, education, ethics, and radical inclusiveness in BDSM, she is always working on her next sinful pursuit. Her schedule is perpetually busy, filled with travels, events, projects, hedonistic play, and time tucked away for her partners and cats.


Mistress Wolfe is an active member of the BDSM community, seeking to create safe spaces for people of all identifications to connect and play. She actively advocates for the decriminalization of sex work, LGBTQIA+ rights, Women's rights, and the Black Lives Matter movement.

Leadership Positions:

  • SoCal Creatures (Co-Founder): An inclusive pet play community welcoming human animals and Handlers of all "species" and intersections.

  • Quench LA (Co-Founder): A monthly munch/meetup for LGBTQIA+ kinksters.

  • Wolfe Academy of Kink (Founder): A virtual educational initiative launched during COVID-19, featuring BDSM Instructors from around the country.

  • Instinct LA (Founder): A community and support group for primal players of all experience levels.

Mistress Wolfe sitting in a throne, wearing shiny black pants, clawed gloves, and a cap with a red vinyl jacket. Photo by 2G Photography.

Her desire to spread positive kink education has led her to teach with an ever-growing number of communities, including Wicked Grounds in San Francisco, Black Thorn Dungeon in Oakland, DomCon LA, Dyke Day LA, Sanctuary Studios, Dungeon East, Off the Leash in Pittsburgh, and more.

When not presenting workshops, Mistress Wolfe can often be found running kink taster booths and performing at clubs and events. Her list of past appearances includes LA Pride, Torture Garden LA, Bar Sinister, Wasteland Weekend, and more. Her specialties include fetish, high-concept themes, and audience immersion performances.


She is always interested in serious performance bookings, which can be requested via email.

Mistress Wolfe reclined in a throne, wearing shiny black pants, clawed gloves, and a cap with a red vinyl jacket. Photo by 2G Photography.


  • DomCon LA Mistress of Ceremonies, 2020-2021

  • DomCon LA Animal Play Awards Judge, 2021

  • DomCon LA Animal Play Awards - Best Pet Educator, 2020