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EDUCATION & CLASSES

B&W Photo of Mistress Wolfe in a lace kimono, holding a horse whip. Photo by Moonwalk Photography

Wish to learn from an experienced Mistress? You've come to the right place.

PRIMAL SUPPORT GROUP

This virtual support group is on hiatus.

UPCOMING CLASSES

Hyperlinks added as they become available.

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  • [VIRTUAL] August 28th 2025, 6pm PST - Primal Identity Workshop with Society of Janus

RECORDED CLASSES ON GUMROAD

To access recordings of past classes and other helpful tools, such as my personal BDSM Checklists and D/s Dynamic Contract, visit my Gumroad account.

COACHING

PRIVATE INSTRUCTION

I love to offer private consultations, training, and ongoing coaching to those interested in deepening their kink explorations, or with particular questions that require more attention than a general class. Few things bring me more joy than helping others discover their kinky selves and develop new skills.

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Coaching is based in education and self-development, and is not the same as a formal session.

 

Private Instruction and Coaching can be done virtually over the phone or Zoom, or in-person at a dungeon in Los Angeles.

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Rates:

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  • Virtual Consultation & Coaching Sessions begin at $100/hour.

  • In-Person Coaching Consultation Sessions begin at $200/hour.

  • In-Person Hands-On Training Sessions begin at $400/hour.

  • Ongoing Coaching Packages are available. These are typically billed on a monthly basis.

  • Final rates are individually calculated depending on what is desired.


Please Note: If you are a Top and want me to bring a bottom for you to learn on, there will be an additional hourly fee added in order to compensate that bottom for their time, feedback, and expertise. There is no additional charge if you bring your own bottom.
 

BOOK MISTRESS WOLFE TO TEACH WITH YOUR ORGANIZATION OR EVENT

BOOK A CLASS

All classes can be taught virtually or in-person, and are 90-120 minutes long (including Q+A). 1-Hour classes can be distilled upon request. To request details for any of the below classes and book Mistress Wolfe to teach with your organization or event, email here.

 

Be sure to include a description of your organization or event, location, relevant links, compensation, and requested date/time frame.

  • "Call Me Daddy:" Exploring Daddies Across Queerness
    What makes a Daddy? Why, and how, might we incorporate Daddies into our kink? What does it mean for a woman or gender expansive person to claim the title? Join Primal Leather Daddy Wiley Wolfe for an in-depth look at the masculine side of these nurturing Dominants, from soft-hearted caregivers to the leather Daddies of your dirtiest dreams. This class is centered in gender-expansiveness and queerness, but is welcome for anyone to attend, as there is information on offer to benefit that any Daddy or Daddy-lover. TW: Patriarchal figures and structures, including but not limited to absent fathers, queer loss, and a brief comment on (role play) incest. Lecture-style class with Q+A. Encourages group discussion.
  • Navigating D/s Dynamics
    In this class, we will take a detailed look at Dominant/submissive dynamics - what they mean, how they work, ways to structure yours for success, common pitfalls, ideas for protocols and rituals, and how to sustain and navigate one with consent, growth, and healthiness in mind. From contracts to collars and more, you will leave with all the tools necessary to embark upon these beautiful, rewarding styles of relationship. Lecture-style class with Q+A.
  • Covert Kink: Keeping it Kinky - Without Scaring the Vanillas!
    Wish you could express your kinky self in public settings? Looking for ways to enhance your dynamic in subtle or vanilla-friendly ways? Struggling to connect to kink while living with family or roommates? This is the class for you! We'll discuss vanilla-friendly ways to express and connect to our kinky selves and dynamics, covert protools and rituals, discrete play, designing a discrete kinky getaway, and more. We will also highlight personal responsibility informed risk-awareness in regards to these public-facing expressions. Come get stealthy with us! Lecture-style class with Q+A. Encourages group discussion.
  • Pup Handler 101
    There are lots of classes and examples out there about how to be a human pup, but what about the Handlers that watch over them? What the $%#@ do we do?! In this class, you'll learn all about what it takes to be a Handler - from responsibilities, building your "Handler Toolkit," safety, finding your (and your pet's) style, setting up your dynamic, structuring scenes, playtime ideas, basic training techniques, and more. You'll leave armed with all the tools necessary to find and "adopt" your first human pup! Lecture-style class with Q+A. Demo may be added.
  • Pup Training Basics
    Get your leash and toys ready - it's time to train! We'll discuss how training can benefit a Handler/human pup dynamic, different training and motivation methods, and how to set up and get the most out of your training sessions. We will also cover body postures, the Core Commands needed to create a solid obedience foundation, and more! Whether you're currently in a Handler/pet partnership or solo and looking to learn, this class will get you off to a tail-wagging good start. Lecture-style class with Q+A and demos.
  • Exploring Gender and Sexuality Through Animal Role Play
    Animal Role Play can be a vehicle for stress relief, structure, silliness, and more - but it can also be a powerful means of exploring and validating the diverse, often-fluid fabrics of gender and sexuality. In this class, we'll take a deep dive into how animal role play can relate to gender and sexuality - finding your animal headspace/s, solo play self-connection techniques, centering validation in our scenes and dynamics, negotiation tips, identity exploration/validation for Handlers, and more. Discussion is welcomed to share our unique experiences. Let's discover all the ways to help all animal role players feel empowered and seen. Lecture-style/roundtable hybrid class with Q+A. Encourages group discussion.
  • Pet Play From A Distance: Tips and Tricks for Long-Distance Play
    Traveling, non-nesting relationships, and living at a distance from our Handler, pet, or community should never stop us from having a fulfilling play experience or dynamic. In this class, we'll explore ways to sustain and enhance a long-distance pet play dynamic, tips to tap into your pet headspace while physically isolated, suggestions for virtual playtime/training, online ethical consent practices, psychological safety considerations, and more. Whether you're solo or looking to improve your LDR, this class is for you. Lecture-style class with Q+A.
  • Animal Role Play: Wild Canines
    You might have heard about human pups, but what about Wolves? Coyotes? Foxes? African Wild Dogs? Hyenas? How do these human animals differ from their domestic counterparts? This class will discuss these unique "wild" headspaces, specialized scene and immersion ideas, gear options, and what to do as a Handler. We'll also explore alternative relationships, such as a Wolf and a little, a Hyena Domme and her bitch boy, or a Pack without Handlers. Lecture-style class with Q+A and demo/s.
  • Waking the Beast: Primal Play 101
    Primal Play can be described as a state of mind in which someone sheds their civilized inhibitions and allows themselves to act based on natural instinct and impulse, resulting in raw, often animalistic behavior and energy exchange. This class is designed to introduce you to the concepts, provide vocabulary, and give you the right tools to get started on your primal journey. We'll discuss the primal headspace, getting to know your primal self, negotiation tips, safety and ethics, what a primal scene can entail, and much more! The primal lifestyle is a rich, nuanced, and profoundly personal experience. The adventure starts here. Lecture-style class with Q+A. Encourages group discussion.
  • Primal Identity Workshop
    Let's delve into what makes you primal! This workshop and accompanying workbook is meant to help you create and/or gain a deeper understanding into who you are as a primal kinkster. We'll discuss questions that get to the root of your primal self, including your energetic inclinations, play desires, instincts, preferred sensations, animal affiliations (if any), self-visualizations, and more! Come ready to participate, discover something new about yourself, and have fun. Roundtable discussion class with interactive take-home workbook.
  • Under My Boot: Stomp & Grind
    Do you dream of having a writhing bottom under your boot, moaning as you press on their flesh or deliver powerful kicks? Or perhaps you dream of being that bottom. Either way, this is the class for you. We'll go over what Stomp & Grind is, how different shoes (or being barefoot) affect sensations, where and how to step/kick, how to manage physical safety for different bodies, important negotiation points, and how to build your scene. Let's get kickin'! Lecture-style class with Q+A and demos.
  • Belts & Straps 101
    This class is a beginner's guide to the world of belts and straps (the hitting kind, not the penetrative kind!). We'll discuss different types of belts and straps you might incorporate into your play, where to get them, safety considerations, leather softening options, basic impact techniques, basic bondage techniques, and more! Expect to leave this class empowered to begin incorporating belts into your next scene. Lecture-style class with Q+A and demos.
  • "You Need A Spanking": A Deep Dive Into Domestic Discipline
    Corporal punishment and spankings in schools and homes were the standard for disciplining children and wives for generations, and remains in some cultures to this day. For many, role playing these behavior modification tactics is highly erotic - a fetishized exploration of discipline. But what makes domestic discipline in kink so hot?? What might we be engaging with politically and/or socially when we play with these themes? What implements are commonly used, and how do we properly wield them? Is there psychological safety to consider? What are the most common role play scenarios and spanking positions, and how do we create an immersive and effective role play environment? Prepare for a deep dive into all this and more! Lecture-style class with Q+A and demos.
  • Shocking Delights: Electroplay 101
    This class delves into the ways we can use the buzzing power of electricity to... well, electrify our kink! You'll learn about the different types of electroplay that exist (violet/neon wands, TENS, zappers, and more), necessary equipment, essential safety measures, and how to incorporate them in your next scene. Expect to leave empowered to bring your next scene to shocking new heights! Lecture-style class with Q+A and demos. Specific electroplay types can be given focus by request (ex. a class that focuses mostly on violet/neon wands). TENS demos may require more privacy, cleanup, and time.
  • Wax Play 201: Intention, Transformation, and Ritual
    This class will delve into the ways we can use wax to deepen our connections to each other and ourselves - including transformation, identity and body validation, endurance trials, human altars, and more! A basic understanding of wax play 101 is recommended. We will refresh the types of wax and safety, but will maintain a particular focus on navigating and negotiating these often emotionally-charged explorations. Lecture-style class with Q+A and demos. Requires extensive setup and cleanup accommodations.

ORGANIZATIONS & EVENTS MISTRESS WOLFE HAS TAUGHT FOR

  • 7 Days of Domination - Online

  • 910 WeHo - Los Angeles, CA

  • Black Thorn/Sacred Muse - San Francisco, CA

  • Cantina Kennel - West Hollywood, CA

  • Dark Odyssey: Surrender  - San Jose, CA

  • DomCon  - Los Angeles, CA

  • Dungeon East/Justine Cross  - Los Angeles, CA

  • Dyke Day  - Los Angeles, CA

  • FLAME Conference  - National/Online

  • IMsLBB  - San Jose, CA

  • Kinkfest - Portland, OR

  • Lesbian Sex Mafia  - New York City

  • Off the Leash  - Pittsburgh, PA

  • Sanctuary Studios  - Los Angeles, CA

  • Threshold - Los Angeles, CA

  • Westcoast Bound - Coquitlam, BC

  • Wicked Grounds  - San Francisco, CA

  • Wruffin' It Pet Play Summer Camp - Caroline, Alberta

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